Ramblings about Kink and being a Faggot
Kink Vs Sex
You can do kink that includes sex but doesn't have to, and have sex that includes kink but doesn't have to. And that is two different events.
- The ingredients for "Doing Kink":
- Negotiation before,
- Consent again before the scene
- The Scene
- Aftercare
- Check in after
- Likewise, I’d say these are the ingredients for Doing Sex:
- Flirting (are we going to have sex?)
- Consent before moving forward (Yeah, we’re going to have sex)
- Foreplay
- Sex Play (Whatever you count as the sex, not just penetration)
- *optional step*Orgasm seeking (However you like to do that)
- Aftercare
